NewsMay 9, 2013 10:45 AM ET27,837 views

Tim Lambesis' wife: he's obsessed w/ bodybuilding

According to U-T San Diego, the wife of imprisoned As I Lay Dying frontman Tim Lambesis claims that he had been obsessed with bodybuilding and virtually ignored their children. Meggan Lambesis, 32, filed for divorce last fall, citing irreconcilable differences. The couple had been married eight years and had three children, all adopted from Ethiopia. "Specifically," Meggan Lambesis claims, "he has become obsessed with bodybuilding and spends a great deal of time lifting weights, hanging out in the gym, and being unavailable to the children." She added that Lambesis would sometimes fall asleep while supervising his children and spent thousands of dollars on tattoos and high-end vehicles. Meggan Lambesis, who was then a stay-at-home mother, provided a 2010 tax return showing $233,000 in gross income for the couple. For the record, divorce filings are quite frequently nasty affairs, rife with he-said-she-said accusations. Though Meggan Lambesis' claims may well be accurate, the context of said claims should be taken into account. And while it doesn't honestly seem right to propagate this information, Tim Lambesis doesn't appear deserve a whole lot of consideration at the moment.

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anonymous 5/9/2013 7:51:39 AM

First here to have no life.


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:52:24 AM

As I lay bench pressing


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:53:12 AM

HA! 94 hours of regret for me to realize what I held Unfading beauty, not just a face I held it's innocence within my heart Go! Now I won't let go I won't let go I won't let go I won't I won't let go I won't I won't let go The torment of your eyes has awakened my soul. The torment of your eyes has awakened my soul. The pain of a moment's time will forever beg your forgiveness Forgiveness 94 hours for me to realize I held unfailing beauty I held your innocence


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:53:43 AM

not surprised lifeflip already


brassknuckleromance 5/9/2013 7:53:47 AM

I remember seeing pics of them around the time the split w/ American Tragedy came out (will be on ebay from me soon hehehe) and Tim was super skinny, now he is rather big. divorce eh? I say stay away from people and just buy smut, straight up jackin all day bruh.


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:53:52 AM

bitch stoking the fire. Everyone of these c*nts are trailer trash, including you pieces of shit reading this. They are what's wrong with the world


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:54:41 AM

Matt from KWD should hit Tim up for some lyrics for the new KWD album..... sounds like Tim was in the right mindset ;)


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:56:23 AM

we're pieces of shit for reading this, but you're cool? makes sense. I'm sure you know so much about her. fck her for her husband trying to have her killed.


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:57:42 AM

3 kids from Ethiopia? Who the fck do they think they are, Brad and Angelina?? Who could blame him for hanging out at the gym all the time though, chillin with her and 3 black kids that aren't yours doesn't really sound like a good time


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:57:44 AM

Ethiopia is not stoked whatsoever. Money could've gone into grains for them c*nt kids villages


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:58:51 AM

I'm a bodybuilder and I don't even spend but 2 hours a day on it, and I am obsessed. I'm sure his obsession with it and not paying attention to his kids has completely nothing to do with him being on tour for months on end.


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:59:47 AM

we're pieces of shit for reading this, but you're cool? makes sense. I'm sure you know so much about her. fck her for her husband trying to have her killed. ^^ Meggan's Ethiopian girlfriend


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:00:34 AM

3 kids from Ethiopia? Who the fck do they think they are, Brad and Angelina?? Who could blame him for hanging out at the gym all the time though, chillin with her and 3 black kids that aren't yours doesn't really sound like a good time ^^^^^ omg hahaha best comment


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:01:22 AM

well...hes gonna get the D in jail


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:01:42 AM

Tim Lambesis into bodybuilding, eh? Thanks for breaking the news on this one Lambgoat! Never woulda guessed


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:01:59 AM

Megan is spelt with one 'G' by normal people.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:03:07 AM

good writing


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:04:22 AM

Tim Lambesis doesn't appear deserve a whole lot of consideration at the moment. yeah, he's a rich christian guy. as i get beatd


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:08:25 AM

she doesn't even lift bro


brassknuckleromance 5/9/2013 8:14:43 AM

dom mazzetti and his bro science videos need to be on this. ok ok I'm done w/ trying to be internet funny on here for a spell.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:15:19 AM

do ethiopians even lift?


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:17:06 AM

and even with that gross income he still needs a kickstarter for austrian death machine ? now thats funny


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:17:59 AM

this clown could've cashed in with an interview from networks. Jumped the gun like the negroid gentleman who saved the kidnapees


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:18:28 AM

anyone else notice the huge guy about to go to prison? he's only gonna get bigger and crazier with his lyrics if he's ever let out! and he's a dumb ass want something done right you gotta do it yourself come on!


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:20:57 AM

anyone else notice the huge guy about to go to prison? he's only gonna get bigger and crazier with his lyrics if he's ever let out! and he's a dumb ass want something done right you gotta do it yourself come on! ^^ Randy @LOG


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:21:34 AM

STFU with that her story may be one sided bull shit. Homeboy was trying to have her killed, she has the right to be a lil pissed. - HeartthRob


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:21:36 AM

$233,000 and he has to crowd fund a ADM record?


AnalButt 5/9/2013 8:24:15 AM

This is stupid


MeatDelivery 5/9/2013 8:31:57 AM

Those kids better have enjoyed it. Got a feeling they will be orphans again soon.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:38:02 AM

Is this a news story or webby's opinion piece?!


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:38:22 AM

She said: He wasn't emotionally available. He said: THE c*nt NEEDS TO DIE!!!!! Sounds like homeboy was dipping into the 'roids.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:39:22 AM

As I Lay Child Neglecting


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:44:05 AM

Unsure who to be angry at any more. Ethiopians, Christians, Metalcore, Defonce, Impending Doom?


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:47:00 AM

I thought this dude sucked, but now I see that she was just getting in the way of his lifting. I think he made the right choice, now he can lift in prison.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:47:42 AM

Lambgoat has had more hits this week than Ronald Radke


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:05:15 AM

Tim Lambesis doesn't appear deserve a whole lot of consideration at the moment. presumption of innocence? christ, lambgoat.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:08:58 AM

A Gym Between Us


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:12:15 AM

I totally understand him :D hangin out in the gym and get big is the best thing you can do with your time, you forget all the stress in the everydays life.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:17:59 AM

ADM is a joke side band you act like a man would want to pay 1/4th of his yearly income into something like that. I suppose you can make the argument that the rest of his bands are jokes as well but at least one is lucrative.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:22:25 AM

Unsure who to be angry at any more. Ethiopians, Christians, Metalcore, Defonce, Impending Doom? ^ LOL


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:24:29 AM

wonder what the vocalist of Harm's Way wife would say if he had one


PainINtheTIGHTpants 5/9/2013 9:26:49 AM

stay tough Tim


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:39:54 AM

Who could blame him for hanging out at the gym all the time though, chillin with her and 3 black kids that aren't yours doesn't really sound like a good LOL


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:48:37 AM

He was in asia when the supposed incident happened. The cops got the wrong guy, maybe its another guy with the same name


as_I_laycrying 5/9/2013 9:51:26 AM

They stripped me naked had me lift my ballsack up so they could check underneath it, and then had me bend over and spread my asscheeks apart so they could look inside my jerk.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:55:19 AM

He was in asia when the supposed incident happened. The cops got the wrong guy, maybe its another guy with the same name ^^ fcking lol'd, OP is a fcktard.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:58:03 AM

As I Whey Dying


anonymous 5/9/2013 10:12:02 AM

we're stoked -Frankie Palmeri


FrankiePalmeri 5/9/2013 10:26:05 AM

^^^^ Im stoked.


anonymous 5/9/2013 10:37:48 AM

Id say buying high end vehicles is more of an obession than body building


brand_new_dick_face 5/9/2013 10:38:41 AM

For the record: I'm the dumbest fcking webmaster ever


john_doe 5/9/2013 10:52:55 AM

roid rage? someone at gawker posted a before/after pic of him. he's not super jacked, but compared to how thin he used to be, he's obviously been working out.


anonymous 5/9/2013 10:57:26 AM

I want to know something? Timmy has been in Asia for about a month, so when were the threats initially made, and if they were made before he left then why was he allowed to leave the country.


anonymous 5/9/2013 10:59:32 AM

Bullshit. My man was in china when the supposed transaction happened. Can anyone say c*nt wife frame job?


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:04:37 AM

It seems lambgoat is salivating about all of this. achance to bring down one of these christian nobs being completely biased in this article.


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:06:58 AM

Also 233,000 is below the middle class median income. For a rockstar it's not very much, throw in 3 kids a wife, a house this dude is about as rich as a plant manager for a factory


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:21:08 AM

Clearly the kickstarter was made for bail and legal fees which is kind of smart if you ask me. Planning ahead for god and what not.


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:28:26 AM

doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve doesn't appear deserve


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:29:34 AM

The kids that post on here are soooo stupid. $233,000 (gross income, minus taxes is $163,000) for TWO adults not just him, with 3 kids, living in southern cali.... that its not a lot of money lol.


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:30:36 AM

"Honey boy place my ashes in a vase beneath your workout bench." - Xiu Xiu, "Fabulous Muscles"


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:33:07 AM

Free TIM!!!


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:45:01 AM

Someone said ADM was a joke band.. Yea but have you heard the songs from it? A very good quality joke band. Like Dethklok


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:55:32 AM

TIM doesn't even own a car and he is a good father, megan would agree this article is a lie


anonymous 5/9/2013 11:57:38 AM

The Powerless Deadlift


anonymous 5/9/2013 12:10:43 PM

meaning in lifting weight is dead nothing left to lift lifting betrays i never wanted to adopt lift us all the sound of lifting beyond our lifting a greater bench press wasted roids no weights to lift my only home is a gym


rick____tocchet 5/9/2013 12:20:27 PM

He is gonna have plenty of time body building in prison. sageas gonna LOVE THAT SHIT!!!!


LoydChristmas 5/9/2013 12:28:03 PM

tim is backed hard. tell this crazy bishhhh to go home


anonymous 5/9/2013 12:42:05 PM

FREE LIL TIMMY. Justice for tim. If I had a son he'd look like Tim Lambesis. Demonstrations and protests happening nation wide of black men and elderly white woman wearing sleeveless shirts holding nothing but a cup of raw eggs and a protein bar in their pockets. - butt dog


LoydChristmas 5/9/2013 12:42:38 PM

buttmad because she fell in love with a scrawny band nerd now that he's manned up she's all "ew guh-rossss hes liek obsessed with gettin huge now prettier girls notice him"


anonymous 5/9/2013 1:29:22 PM

The kickstarter wasn't for the ADM record. It was to fund the murder. Everyone who gave is a little bit guilty.


anonymous 5/9/2013 2:04:34 PM

Has anyone read all the other shit she's said in other articles? She bitches that he's a bad parent because he tours all the time...really?! She fckin' married him in '04 when AILD was hitting it big and touring ALL THE TIME. She mentioned something about him texting people when he visits the kids as well; talk about a petty ass bitch. She's just jealous her hubby got swole and started fcking around with a porn star who isn't a complete tight-ass.


anonymous 5/9/2013 3:15:03 PM

Should have done CrossFit instead...


Snoopy2 5/9/2013 3:27:57 PM

Bench more n11gger dicks right in between your buttcheeks in the fcking prison shower room you fcking post-2001 emo kid turned retard


anonymous 5/9/2013 4:26:35 PM

The $233,000 was their income tax return, ya big banana head. Hes worth 14 million.


anonymous 5/9/2013 4:45:16 PM

Sounds like the wife is holding out for more ali-money. Wouldn't be surprised if she made a fake facebook account and solicited a "hitman" herself in order to haul this dude back before a family court and get more of his money. Especially while her ex-husband is in Hong Kong and can't particularly figure out what's going on. There's no good reason for a guy to get married these days.


anonymous 5/9/2013 4:55:21 PM

^dude was arrested in Oceanside,CA, not Kula-Lumpar you sore c*nt. He not once but twice solicited someone to kill his wife, the second time was to an undercover cop, not posted on facebook, I hate my wife and wish she died. Face it, no As I Lay Dying tours for another 6-9 years, by then you'll all grown up. No more Austrian Cash Machine, no more Pytherion, no more clothing lines and preorders. Its gonna be rough, but you'll make it through it.


malachi 5/9/2013 5:13:06 PM

Thank you. All these fcking morons crying "China" are too goddamn stupid to realize he got arrested during a sting here - the 2nd offense. Nobody gives a fck about Asia. He did it here and is guilty as fck. Stop vouching for this self-righteous fckbag who fooled you all into thinking he liked God. That facade made him $230k a year. fcking gullible rejects.


anonymous 5/9/2013 5:37:47 PM

These comments are just the funniest shit ive read in a long time. MORE


anonymous 5/9/2013 6:38:37 PM

The $233,000 was their income tax return, ya big banana head. Hes worth 14 million. ^^^ I dont know where you get your info from dickhead, but do you really think he would be doing a kickstarter for $60k if he was worth $14million, or that his wife would complain about him buying high end vehicles if he was worth that much money??? $60k is chump change to someone worth $14mil. All you c*nts are retarded


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:18:06 PM

^ your a dumb c*nt. Why would someone who owns a recording studio ask the public for money to record his joke side project? Uh because he doesnt want to waste any of his own money on it and would rather you pay him in advance because he's fcking greedy. Why do you think he tryed to have his wife killed? Because then she doesnt get half of his net worth? He doesnt give a fck how much you like his band, just as long as your moms check clears.


anonymous 5/9/2013 7:49:40 PM

^^ What happened to Innocent until proven guilty


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:09:25 PM

^ Can you NOT fckING READ? What part of UNDERCOVER COP, is not registering in you peanut sized fcking brain?? The part where it says UNDERCOVER or the COP part? Its not someone who guessed his twitter password when you meet up with an undercover cop and give him a grand, pictures, and keycode to get in passed the security gate. HOLY fck there are some dumb bastards.


malachi 5/9/2013 8:32:26 PM

just to put things in perspective, there were jodi arias is innocent websites.


anonymous 5/9/2013 8:46:56 PM

"meaning in lifting weight is dead nothing left to lift lifting betrays i never wanted to adopt lift us all the sound of lifting beyond our lifting a greater bench press wasted roids no weights to lift my only home is a gym" fck.


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:20:47 PM

Tim was gettin swoll to be ready for his jailtime. Even Andy Dufresne got violated...


anonymous 5/9/2013 9:33:35 PM

Why the fck did you add this as news? This is fcking retarded.


m_kwd 5/9/2013 9:33:48 PM

"Matt from KWD should hit Tim up for some lyrics for the new KWD album..... sounds like Tim was in the right mindset ;)" I may write songs about murder, but I am not stupid enough to actually do it. Or worse yet, not be man enough to do it myself. I might actually have to sample Horrible Bosses on the new album in his honor. fck.


anonymous 5/10/2013 1:54:27 AM

KWD sucks anyways don't be so mad because you are still beating a dead horse - Tim Lambesis


anonymous 5/10/2013 2:02:13 AM

Oh man a sample big deal Bandflip


anonymous 5/10/2013 3:53:40 AM

Everyone on this board has already had more dick between their asscheeks than this guy is going to get in prison.


anonymous 5/10/2013 6:14:31 AM

I'd like to see what this broad would think if her husband was dirt poor, an alcoholic and a wife abuser. THEN she'd have something real to complain about. Not just petty things that she's diggin for. Who the fck complains about tattoos, lifting and nice cars when your husband put you in a nice house and you're spending all of his money????!


anonymous 5/10/2013 1:35:00 PM

^ THE TOUR IS CANCELED. BOOO HOOOO. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


anonymous 5/10/2013 1:53:04 PM

It all seems way too excessive. Working out, having a nice car, and hell, being tired from what seems like a tiring career path... doesn't add up to a divorce. If THOSE are reasons for it, then she's demonizing those issues to disguise other stuff. And on the other hand, divorce doesn't add up to "hmmm, it's worth risking life in prison for this"


Snoopy2 5/10/2013 2:30:21 PM

Neither of the two deserves to live anyways


anonymous 5/11/2013 3:02:09 AM

In other articles he said he wrote her an email saying he didnt love her or believe in god anymore, and was having an affair. Newsflash - ALL touring guys in bands and/or crew have cheated or cheat on their wives or girlfriends. I think most women that decide to date or marry a touring guy just take it as par for the course, and those that don't go on tour to keep an eye on their man


anonymous 5/11/2013 5:24:45 AM

Matt, just dont do another album. Please.





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